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Hello, My name is Debra.I'm in bankruptcy,because of caring to much if you can beleive that.See happen was in 2000 we lost our first home due to a fire that started in my sister apartment .We bought this house for our daughter due to the fact she has what is know as Arthrogryposis,and in a wheelchair.See I made a promise to look out for my to my father.So I've tried to do that.All my life my sister have caughten into bullshit one way or the other.All my children still use this address and two are working away.One is having legal troubles,the there's my grand-daughter my husband and I share custody of.My husband and I are seprated and trying to work things out,but with everything that has happened over the last seven years and how this happen well it doesn't look good.See My baby sister was go through a period of change in her life and I took moneythat should of paid on bills and took custody of her daughter that has CP,so she wouldn't be placed in foster care,and she would be able to get her back.I had her in my home for three months,I didn't receive anything back,for her care.Instead my sister caught her checks and didn't repay me either.Then my mother went to have double by-pass,vaulve replacment and I made round trip from my home, Hershey,Pa. daily just so she wouldn't become depressed.Then she moved in for a month and I took care of her until they moved her and my step-father in to their home in Beech Creek.I also had my brother-in-law living with us for awhile after his hip-replacement with drinking problem.My husband's employer didn't take the right amount out for the wage attachment nor did he send it end to the trustee knowing it was court ordered.So now we have a hear in June to demiss the bankruptcy.So I'm depress and taken meds.My daughter is also have health problems with her insides.I just don't have any ideas left inside to fix this for my daughter's future this was to be her home after I left this world,now I don't know.I wish I could payoff everything with one loan and one payment,but I really don't think anyone will help my family.We need for everything is 123,000.00,it would be gracefully acepted,but I know in my heart there's no hope left nor does wishing work,and I've prayed to God for help as well.I know God only gives you what you can handle but I can't take anymore heart ach.